Resources  ·  Community

You do not have to carry this alone.

Circles of remembrance, reading groups, and spaces online and in person — where the children we grieve are remembered together.

Remembrance circles

Small gatherings to mark what was.

Candle-lighting services, annual remembrance walks, and quiet evenings of shared silence — hosted by partner churches, community centers, and doulas across the country.

Reading together

Book clubs and story circles.

Some of our readers have started gentle reading circles around the book. If you are starting one of your own, we would love to hear from you and send a note of care.

Online spaces

Quiet places to read and be heard.

Moderated online communities for bereaved parents — where you can share as much or as little as feels right, and find others walking alongside.

Host a gathering

Invite a circle into your own neighborhood.

We can share a simple guide for hosting a reading, lighting ceremony, or remembrance evening using the book as the gentle anchor. Send a note and we’ll send one back.

Share your story

Every name carried deserves to be spoken.

If you would like to share your child’s name or the way you remember, we are honored to receive it. What you share stays with you — we simply want to witness.